Jan 02 2013

Year in Review: 2012

Category: LifeLindsay @ 1:11 am

I don’t make New Year’s resolutions, but I have not given up on this blog. If my two years of teaching stress didn’t stop me altogether, then I don’t think anything will. I’m not going to declare myself to be “back” again, though. Today will just be another post and just happen to be my annual recap. I’ll make a good effort at Booking Through Thursday this week, and we’ll see how it goes from there.

I only drew this in the cards of people I knew were Christians (and some of the ones for my friends with new babies, tee hee).

I only drew this in the cards of people I knew were Christians (and some of the ones for my friends with new babies, tee hee).

When I sent out my Christmas cards last month (happy octave day of Christmas, by the way), I couldn’t decide how to personalize them. Last year, I drew Christmas-themed decorations in each card with sparkly gel pens. (That inspired the baby Jesus from last year’s Ash Wednesday commentary.) This year, I had originally thought about writing a Christmas letter. My life feels boring and average, but I knew it couldn’t actually be that boring, so I went through my Google calendar month by month to see what had happened to me that was exciting.

You’ll only know what my top seven items were if you got my card, but the full list follows here.

January: I went to my friend Jess’s wedding at Notre Dame. It was a fantastic opportunity to see my friends from my second year of teaching, have a friend date with the lovely Sarah, and attend my very first Catholic wedding. (I know, right?) My blogging was definitely weak, and I hadn’t yet latched on to 7QT to help me keep track of my week.

February: At work, one of my coworkers and I formed a subcommittee to redevelop an old position into a new one. We hired someone just before we closed for Christmas, which is exciting. I also attended the Rite of Election as the RCIA director. It was such a blessing to see all our RCIA catechumens and candidates taking that step. Here at Lindsay Loves, I reflected on my initial experiences with the revised translation of the Mass, which remains one of my most popular posts (because of Catholic Ryan Gosling, I think). Come to think of it, I ought to update that reflection. It’s been over a year. I have a few different thoughts now.

The flowers were pretty, I really liked my outfit, and I wanted a good #lookingdown shot. Did I get it?

The flowers were pretty, I really liked my outfit, and I wanted a good #lookingdown shot. Did I get it?

March: I went on my annual work mission trip again, to Nicaragua, where I got my first ever sunburn. (Review that story in parts one and two.) I picked up a few old “to blog” articles (on moral relativism and Glee), and I gave blood for the last time before going to Nicaragua put me on the deferral list.

April: It was Easter, finally! I heard Lino Rulli, the Catholic Guy, speak at the local Catholic Charities luncheon. I took notes and planned to blog about it, but you know how that goes with me. At work, I started shadowing marriage preparation, and I hosted Dr. Ed Shirley for what was probably his last ever “Harry Potter and Christianity” presentation, because he died suddenly in August.

May: I saw see Twelfth Night at Zilker Park with some friends to kick off the Zilker summer. I reported for jury duty, but I didn’t have to serve! That was a sweet break. My friend Theresa invited me to the Paramount for the first time; we saw a restored print of To Kill a Mockingbird, and it was amazing, of course. Here on the blog, I reviewed October Baby. At work, I officially started saving for retirement. That’s not exciting, but it’ll pay off in the long run, I hope.

June: Sarah came to visit! It is always good to see her. I don’t really like traveling, but I do like hosting (or at least hosting her, I guess). I started the Great Adventure Quick Journey Through the Bible, which was incredibly eye-opening. I love Bible study. On the blog, I listened to and reviewed Vice Re-Verses, and I also unfortunately had to attend a funeral for a child.

I was cold, but it was so worth it! (For comparison, Google an image of Pocohontas from the Disney movie.)

I was cold, but it was so worth it! (For comparison, Google an image of Pocohontas from the Disney movie.)

July: I watched Independence Day fireworks with friends at Auditorium Shores, which was delightful even though I was hot and dusty all evening. I went back to Zilker for The Sound of Music, and I started working with my first couple for marriage prep. Here on the blog, I finally remembered to share my love of The Lizzie Bennet Diaries. (It’s still going strong at nearly 80 episodes, and Lydia has taken off. It’s about to get real!) I had one of my most popular posts ever, about my favorite love songs, thanks to jumping in on Hallie‘s link-up right when it started.

August: I went on my annual retreat; that is, the one I get to participate in rather than running in some way. I got new glasses, and at work, I started preparing people to be godparents.

September: I shared a fantastic prayer method, and then I fell off the blogging wagon again. At the end of the month, my friend Sabrina got married, and I was invited to the wedding. I can now say I have even been to a Catholic wedding in town.

October: I went to what I think was my third football game ever (all on the high school level), and for Halloween, I dressed up as Hipster Pocohontas. My costume went very well with my new glasses.

November: I was invited to speak at a youth group retreat at Holy Cross Parish across town, which validated my public speaking skills and general knowledge of campus ministry. I was finally able to actually do some volunteering with Pure Fashion, and I had a quiet Friendsgiving in Austin.

December: As a great follow-up to my summer Bible study, I attended the “Psalms in a Day” seminar presented by Jeff Cavins. We got off schedule, but I had a good time, and then I attended a friend’s birthday movie marathon. It turns out that Newsies really is delightful. To be honest, though, I rang in the new year hoping that next year, things will be different. I don’t know what’s to come, but I hope it’ll be amazing.

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Jul 02 2012

Top Ten Tuesday: Characters in Real Life

Category: Memes,Top Ten TuesdayLindsay @ 12:20 am

Last week was an epic blogging fail, so, here’s my Top Ten…Uh, Sunday?

Top Ten Characters Who Remind Me Of Myself Or Someone I Know In Real Life

  1. My camp counselor Nicole and Jane Bennet: I don’t think I’ve met anyone before or since that is just genuinely nice. I only knew her for that week I was at leadership camp back in high school, but she was so sweet. She was also engaged, though not to Mr. Bingley.
  2. My friend Jess’s mom and Mrs. Bennet: While I’m still on P&P, let’s go here. Jess was a year behind me in ACE. During her first year (my second), her mom pointed out to her that, when she was Jess’s age, she was already married and had given birth to Jess. Three years after that conversation, Jess is now married and expecting her first child in the fall. Sure, that’s rather different than trying to save your house and keep yourself and your five daughters out of poverty, but the pressure was still there.
  3. My old housemate Michael and Nick from Nick and Nora’s Infinite Playlist (as played by Michael Cera): That was a long identification, but it was critical at the time. We took a household outing to see Nick and Nora. As the movie began, Michael watched and said, “Hey, look, this kid lives in my house. Hey, he drives my old car. He listens to my music. This kid is me!” The rest of the movie was just mediocre, but I’ll never forget his reaction.
  4. Me and the teacher from The Wave: Don’t overreact; I didn’t accidentally start a neo-Nazi group. I tried more than once to overstretch my still-developing skills, though, and wound up in over my head. That’s in the past, though, and I’ve learned from it.
  5. [Edit] Me and Mary Ann Spier from the Baby-sitters Club: this should probably be one character per person, but I am a complex creature. Many people would probably want to associate me with bookish Mallory Pike, and Claudia Kishi was always my favorite, but I think I’m most like mary Ann. I’m generally quiet and I keep to myself a lot, but every now and then I suppose people. This is not by having a steady boyfriend in eighth grade (or now), though. So unfortunate.

That’s all I’ve got for now. I’ll sleep on it, and maybe I can find a few more character matches in the morning. The tough thing about matching people to characters is fighting the inclination to pick characters that make you look good instead of the ones that make you look real. Am I right?

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Jun 23 2012

7 Quick Takes Friday, Vol. 177

Category: 7 Quick Takes Friday,Catholicism,MemesLindsay @ 10:50 am

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I am going to volunteer with Pure Fashion in Austin this coming school year! I’m not into modeling, but i am into character education and spreading the positive message of modesty, and this seems like a great way to do it. Don’t tell any of my former students, but I kind of miss working with high schoolers.

On a vaguely related note, Ive been seeing the ad for Trendy Top all the time lately, and I kind of want one. It seems like a great solution to the low-rise waistline, and it doesn’t encourage you to switch back to immodest like the Cami Secret.

— 2 —

Can I please have this tote bag? We’ve already got “Baby Got Back” adapted for the Bible-lover (“Baby Got Book”), so why not for book lovers in general?

— 3 —

Did you catch the USCCB’s announcement of a new online-adapted Catechism of the Catholic Church? It’s pretty sweet. I love the look, and I especially like that the footnotes and cross-references are pop-ups so they don’t take you away from the section you’re on. Who says the Church can’t get with the times (when appropriate, because some things are timeless)?

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I started a new Bible study program this week. When I was in college, I started a Bible study on salvation history. Our leader left at the end of the school year, leading me to decry (as a joke) that I’d never know how it ended. I’ve been looking for a good opportunity to join another salvation history study then, and I stumbled across The Great Adventure Quick Journey Through the Bible just in time to register (3 days before it started). It’s at a church one town away, so my commute is super long, but I’m very excited for this study, and at least driving is a productive way to spend those thirty minutes.

— 5 —

This 7QT is posted late because Sarah is visiting me, and Getting Things Done before her arrival was much more important that typing this. But now it’s Saturday morning, which sounded like a good designated computer time to me.

— 6 —

I stumbled across a National Catholic Register article lamenting the transfer of the Ascension to Sunday across the U.S. I have been complaining about that since I started paying attention to it. The Pentecost Novena is still the only official one in the Church, and it starts on Thursday. Thursday is supposed to be the Ascension so it makes sense to start praying that day! It’s not even like asking people to go to Mass two days in a row (which will actually happen with the Immaculate Conception in 2012; that day never gets transferred or loses its obligation). Can we be that surprised that people don’t know what a novena is or when Church holidays are if we don’t even do them on the correct day? </end rant>

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In other NCR news, Steven Greydanus cautions against reading any reviews of Brave. I tend not to read reviews precisely because they are spoilery (and I tend not to loathe what reviewers often do). I had such a tough time with my ACNM series on the Hunger Games books because I wanted to preview each book without revealing too much, but I’d read all three before I started writing. This leads into a bigger discussion of media discernment (again! It’s important!), but I’m glad I got the warning. I knew Mandy Moore’s character was going to marry Shane West’s in A Walk to Remember, but I didn’t know she was going to die, so perhaps that’s why I still love that movie. Among other reasons.

For more Quick Takes, visit Conversion Diary!

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Feb 25 2012

Friday Five: Growing Up

Category: Friday Five,Memes,SchoolLindsay @ 11:35 am

Hey, there’s a new F5! It appears to have been posted midday, but it didn’t turn up in my feed reader until 1:06 a.m., so I can only wonder what happened there.

  1. How many schools (up until college) have you attended, in all? Does that include college? I attended three elementary schools, one middle school, three high schools, one college for my undergraduate degree, and another college for my graduate degree.
  2. How many states have you lived in before the age of 18? How many countries? That would be past tense for me. I lived in just one state (Maryland), but three countries (the U.S., Japan, Germany, and then back to the U.S.). Since I turned eighteen, I’ve lived in two more states (Alabama and now Texas).
  3. Have you ever seen the hospital where you were born — where is it/what’s it’s name? I have, although I’ve never been in it. It was Malcolm Grow Medical Center on Andrews AFB in Maryland.
  4. Do you plan to live in the same state in which you were born, or somewhere else? Is that even possible if you’ve left the state already? I will always be a Maryland girl, but I don’t know if I’ll ever go back.
  5. Do you still talk to people from elementary school, middle-school [sic] or high school? I talk to no one from elementary school. I have a few friends from middle school I keep in touch with and other who I’m just superficially connected to on Facebook. I have exactly two high school friends I would actually want to see and spend time with, and they’re twin sisters. Most of my current friends are from college, ACE, or Austin.

Maybe the F5 moderators ought to edit the question submissions anyway. The Internet has made people more widely read, but if this is what they’re reading, it’s no wonder they can’t write. I would offer my time as an editor, but I’m not always reliable even with writing original posts my own blog and ACNM, so I guess I can’t really complain. I still want to complain, though.

The Friday Five

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Sep 06 2011

My friends are Dominicans forever!

Category: CatholicismLindsay @ 9:42 pm

Two old college buddies of mine entered the Dominican Order (O.P.) during my last year of college. They became Br. Peter Martyr and Br. Leo. Br. Peter Martyr in particular was one of my biggest spiritual role models. He was part of the group that taught me how to pray the Liturgy of the Hours. He co-founded the Missionaries of the Eucharist. I prayed my first ever 54-day rosary novena for Brs. Peter Martyr and Leo leading up to their entrance in the Dominicans. They were the first people I knew personally to enter religious life, and I was and am so happy for them.

Imagine my joy to get another email update from Br. Peter Martyr a few weeks ago with the news that he (and Br. Leo) made his solemn profession, making him a Dominican until death. He still has about a year and a half to go until he’s ordained a priest, but I’m so proud already! The photos are copyrighted, but they’re posted in this album over on Flickr. They’re in the middle of this photo, both wearing glasses; Br. Peter Martyr is on the left. I hope the grace of their influence keeps rubbing off on me!

P.S. This is my 900th post! Hooray! It took more than three months, but I’ve enjoyed the ride, and I hope you have, too.

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Jan 03 2009

Home Again

Category: General,LifeLindsay @ 11:44 pm

I leave home tomorrow afternoon. In some ways, I am absolutely ready to go home–to my new home, my ACE home. I needed a break, but I’m ready to go back.

I’ve really appreciated the time to work (which I will resume for a little while after I post this) while not having to go to work. I managed to get my lessons planned for tenth grade for the next two weeks! This is a substantial accomplishment, especially after the semester I had. I set up my grade book for next quarter and my attendance record for next semester. In the process, I accidentally deleted some important files, but that just means I’ll have to cart home some papers to scan. I ran across a couple of PDF-to-text converters that might come in handy. I read almost all the stories I want to teach my ninth-graders for the next month or so, including the ones for my ACE-required unit. I still have plenty to work on (like managing the paper load), but I think I have hope again.

I have had fabulous times with my friends over break. The day after I flew in, I went to Guy and Becca’s Christmas party, where I got to see Scott for the first time since…last year’s Secret Santa! I left there and went straight (and technically late) to Kaitlyn’s graduation party to see all my CSC friends. I told Chris S. about my difficulties, admitting that community became more important than anything else. He, in his new seminary-informed wisdom, suggested that God might have been teaching me the importance of community through those very experiences.

Last Saturday, I went out to see the National Christmas Tree with Guy and Becca (Picasa-patched photos forthcoming). I commented on the Metro ride in that I was finally feeling like a normal person again. It wasn’t just swiping my Metro SmarTrip card that did it. It was chatting with old friends, doing something fun, and not feeling strangled by my teaching life. I didn’t have to be Miss W. anymore. I could be just Lindsay, and that was good enough.

On Monday, I met Jim at the Shrine for daily Mass. I make it a point to go to one daily Mass when I’m home over Christmas break, usually on the Feast of the Holy Innocents, but that was suppressed for the Holy Family this year. So, when he suggested meeting for Mass, it fit quite nicely into my plans. I got there just in time for benediction. I hadn’t expected it at all; I always thought they did exposition after Mass on Friday, but it’s before on Mondays. And I had just been thinking about the Divine Praises that morning. I skipped a line while reciting it during benediction (“Blessed be the name of Mary, Virgin and Mother”), but I remembered “Tantum Ergo” quite well. Mass was fabulous, as always. We went back to CP for lunch and much-anticipated conversation.

After I left Jim, I picked up Maura and wound up back at the Shrine. I showed her the rosary windows in the apses of the Upper Church, and I got a closer look at some of the shrines on that level. There’s so much majesty to the Shrine that it’s impossible to take it all in at once, and difficult even over time. It’s the Catholic Smithsonian.

New Year’s Eve in College Park was lovely. Jim hosted the party on behalf of his current and former housemates. I got to see even more old friends, meet his new girlfriend, play Catchphrase and Apples to Apples, and ring in 2009 feeling like a real twenty-two-year-old.

Family time has been a little difficult, as it always is. I’ve become such a different person than I was when I lived here full-time, but my family’s the same. Even if that means I should come back more, that’s not possible right now. I know family is essential. I do love them. I think I’m only beginning to understand now that you can never go home again.

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Dec 18 2008

New York and Loneliness

Category: GeneralLindsay @ 5:35 pm

I just read a New Yorker article on urban loneliness linked from BustedHalo‘s “What We’re Reading.” I only have time to skim nowadays, so I didn’t get to ponder it yet, but it was interesting nevertheless. I’m fairly prone to loneliness, though living in community has all but eliminated that.

The author’s point about friends and social connections replacing traditional family ties is particularly relevant to my life right now. My friends have become my family in a way I never expected, and it sustains me. Friends aren’t as permanent as family, but there’s something about choosing to be in relationship with someone, to stick it out despite hardships, that makes the love of friends so strong. They give me life.

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Mar 17 2008

Since I Missed Christmas

Category: GeneralLindsay @ 10:37 pm

I know that “I just need to get these out of my Downloads folder” is a lame excuse to post, but it’s all I have. Like most college students, I am a facebook aficionado. Back in December, an application called My Christmas Tree got ridiculously popular. I caved, adding a cute tree to my profile with “Christmas Eve Sarajevo,” by Trans Siberian Orchestra, as my song.

My Christmas Tree became Festive Events, and then Gifts Gallery, since you can send a gift for numerous holidays or wannabe holidays, or for no reason. (Also for free, unlike the original facebook gifts.) I hid the application after Epiphany, but I also took screenshots of the gifts I received. (Last names are blurred to protect privacy.)

facebook Christmas 1

I also snapped the gifts I sent.

facebook Christmas 2

To be honest, I sent Kaitlyn two, because I forgot to add a message with the hula beanie bear. It was an unorthodox gift exchange, but quite nice for those of us on tight budgets.

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Dec 26 2007

Catholic Carnival 151

Category: Catholic Carnival,GeneralLindsay @ 11:32 pm

I remember when reading the Catholic Carnival was the height of my week. Now I’m excited to finally be able to read one again! Last week’s was up at Aussie Coffee Shop.

Ian of Musings from a Catholic Bookstore comments on a Time article about the rising trend of large families among the affluent. I’m not seeing anyone right now, and discerning my vocation is a whole trial I’m not going to get into, but if I marry, I hope to have as large a family as God wants. Ian makes some good points about the reality of large families, even among the middle class. I can’t quite wrap my head around it, since I’m still a poor college student and my parents are still willing to help me out, but I know from FAFSA experience that when the government tries to make estimates about real people and money, they are often wrong.

Sean at A Catholic Canadian muses on whether online communities can–or should–replace real-life camaraderie. t’s important to think of technology-based communication as a scaffold to relationships, not a substitute. For example, Jim and I have a great friendship. I’ve even asked him to recommend me for grad school. We met on a CSC retreat, and then had Bible study together, but since we don’t see each other in person all the time, our friendship is supported by AIM. Without it, our friendship wouldn’t be as strong. Likewise, I’ve connected with some old friends using facebook. I make it a point to see people in person, though. It’s trickier when you don’t have much money, but sometimes quality time is worth it. Sean also mentions his interest in building community through the Knights of Columbus, which I, CDA Regent, think is a lovely idea.

At Bearing Blog (which is a neat title), Erin offers an analysis of the Congregation for the Doctrine of the Faith’s recent document on the need for evangelization. The whole Church could use some good, strong pointers on how to evangelize effectively. As Maura puts it, we need better marketing. I’ll have to keep her pointers in mind, and read the whole document myself one of these days.

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Jun 11 2007

In Personality Christi

Category: CatholicismLindsay @ 9:19 pm

I hadn’t gotten any ZENIT news in my Google Reader for the past several days. At first, I thought I might have accidentally skipped a hiatus announcement, but then I realized it must be my feed. I was using a hijacked method of sorts to get the feed, since ZENIT didn’t offer one directly. Ironically, that made me miss the new site design, which not only changed it on its face, but also revealed much better organization, a search engine, and an official RSS feed. Now I can keep up with Catholic news and be totally legit about it.

Yesterday evening, I went to Jess N., Mary, Lacy, and Cathy’s house for dinner with all of them, Mikey Mac, and Alex. (Sierra lives there, too, but I don’t know her very well, and she wasn’t there yesterday.) Jess had invited me after Mass to celebrate Corpus Christi. I was unsure about going at first. Then I decided that I’d rather not be at home and lonely.

I think I became an extrovert when I wasn’t looking. I took Bloginality‘s super-short Myers-Briggs Type Indicator…oh, a good couple of years ago, and tested ISFJ. I took the same test a few months ago for HONR 100, and tested ESFJ. I and E and introvert and extrovert, respectively. Reflecting on it, I can understand that. I used to be much quieter than I am now. I would never have thought I’d be a retreat leader, or be able to debate against Roe v. Wade, or any number of things I’ve done. I still get nervous a lot, but I guess I’m not so quiet.

Last night was a case in point. Introverted Lindsay would probably have gone for the quiet evening at home. I’d only been to the girls’ house once before, and that was for Pat’s birthday in August. A small dinner would have meant talking more intimately with people I don’t know all that well. However, New Extroverted Lindsay realized that she really didn’t want to be alone, and that she can’t get to know people better without spending time with them one-on-one (or seven-all-together, as the case may be.)

I’m so glad I went. I pulled up right after Alex at about 6:45pm, but I turned my car around before I parked, so he wound up answering the door for me. Jess was in the kitchen frosting a cake. I thought it was a fish, but it was actually a monstrance. I couldn’t see the decorative handle/stand part. Cathy showed off her new books (I remember when I had time to read…), and then we all gathered around the table to eat. Jess’s chicken, bruschetta, and salad were delicious. The table was a bit too small for seven of us, but we managed just fine. And the monstrance cake was yummy, too. Cathy ate the Eucharist slice. It wasn’t quite the sort of Eucharistic adoration the Holy Father encouraged in his Corpus Christi Angelus address, but we like to make our faith personal.

Between dinner and dessert, Mike, Alex, and Jess started talking about philosophy. Jess quickly moved on to yelling about philosophy. I tried to follow along and not get caught in Mike and Jess’s crossfire. Alex turned it into a more literary discussion (I met him in ENGL 301 my sophomore year), and we somehow wound up discussing the difference between nerds, geeks, and dorks.

As it got later, Mike wanted to go watch the NBA finals on his big-screen TV at the guys’ house a mile away, so we just moved the party over there. It’s a really cute house. I love the pink bathroom in a house of six guys. We talked for a while more, and I sent myself home just after 10, giving Cathy and Alex a ride back to the girls’ house on the way.

I can’t quite articulate how I felt about this alternate Sunday night dinner, without my usual crowd. It was…different. Good different. I love both groups of friends, but there is a distinct difference between them, besides the Catholic/non-Catholic part. It’s something to think about.

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